re: hammer's anvil

"This isn't for me, but it rang true in how I feel about a man. When you want to understand and it all gets mixed up and you say the wrong thing, or do the wrong thing because you're not sure what exactly is happening. For once I just enjoy time with somebody and am more comfortable than I have been in years and just wish to understand why and what, even if only friends, it is supposed to be. I take it for what it is and enjoy what little time I do get with him, it's all I can ask for.

You are not alone. And it's nice to see that men go through the same things as women sometimes."